Church identity not cramped by society

For all my life I’ve been different. I was always the only kid at the party who requested water to drink with her cake and ice cream at Big Wheel, the hot spot for birthday parties in grade school. I wasn’t allowed to go out with my friends on Sundays, wear two-piece swimsuits to the pool like all the other fashionable girls, go to dances until I was 14 or on dates with boys until I was 16. I was never what some would call a “social reject,” but I never really fit in well with all the other kids my age either. I was always the odd ball, the outsider of the “in-crowd,” the little Mormon girl. And for the longest time, the snide remarks, sarcastic comments and other rude jokes about my religion met the stone face of my exterior but found their way into my soul through the cracks in my faith, wrapping their piercing tentacles around my heart. But like anyone faced with a challenge in his or her belief system, I had two choices. I could surrender my beliefs, trade them for something more fashionable or socially acceptable, and back away in a cookie-cutter walk with God, or I could take the road less traveled. This road, however, would not be the easiest to take, especially in a world where strangers and friends alike cloud such a path with their own preconceived notions and prejudices about what the traveler chooses to believe. No, this road would not be easy. This road would require some definite soul searching and self-evaluating. You see, in order to stand for something, you have to know it, integrate it into your soul, own it. Otherwise, you’re just standing. Looking back over the past four years, I can see a change in my attitude toward my beliefs. No longer do I dread the moment when I’d be asked to what religion I belong. No longer do I blush anytime a reference to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is mentioned in a crowd of people. I know what it is that I truly stand for, and I’m willing to stand for it until the day I die. I know that I believe in Jesus Christ, and I’m not afraid to share those beliefs with others. I know where I stand on premarital sex, alcohol and personal integrity, and I’m not ashamed to live those standards every day. Although I have been told on numerous occasions by other fellow Christians that I am going to hell, I’m actually a closet member of an occult, and that I need psychological help for some of my moral beliefs, I have become grateful for these experiences. I have learned to “love those who persecute you.” I have been on the receiving end of some pretty harsh and unqualified judgments, and through that, I have learned the importance of the proverbial golden rule, of tolerance and of “loving your neighbor like yourself.” Sometimes our hardest trials develop our strongest character. For it is only through the heat of the fire raw silver may be purified to its shiniest, finest form. So as we trudge through the refining fire we call life, remember to glean what lessons you can from what passes through the flames. I believe that true Christianity, no matter what denomination, is founded on one basic principle, and that is love, love for everyone no matter a person’s color, gender, status or religion.

Lethcoe, a senior mass communication major, hails from Arlington, Texas.

 

Who do I want to become? asks graduate

I remember sitting in second grade and talking to my friends about graduating. It seemed so far away. Then, in what seemed like the blink of an eye, I was graduating from high school. Thoughts of graduating from college started coming to mind and that seemed like light years away. OK, it was only four, but it seemed like it would never get here. Now it seems almost like a joke to think I am really leaving my comfortable college life behind. I’ve become accustomed to going to class, going to work and going out with my friends whenever I wanted to. It doesn’t seem like long ago I was sitting on the playground with my friends and talking about my future. I guess being scared of the unknown is to be expected in this situation. I have never had to rely solely on the knowledge I learned in school. I’ve always had someone there looking over my shoulder telling me if I was doing something right or not. Not anymore--I am entirely on my own. Makes you wish you would’ve paid a little more attention in your classes, doesn’t it? I never thought these were the feelings I would be having about graduating. I always assumed this would be the single absolute greatest day of my life. What could be better than finally being done with school forever? I realize now that graduation isn’t the biggest or most important day of our lives. It’s how we decide to live every day after graduation that is the biggest most important moment of our lives. It’s what we make of ourselves and how we use the education we’ve worked so hard to earn. We can only be successful if we make ourselves happy every single day no matter how bad things may get. By this time hopefully we’ve figured out that life isn’t about who we know and who we’ve dated. It isn’t about what we wore or where we hung out. Life is about who we are and what we do to make the world a little better than it was before. Life is about helping others and doing things to make others happy. The unknown has so many possibilities for each and every one of us. So many people say graduation is only the beginning of our lives. I really don’t agree with that. It is the end of a very vital part of our lives. What we did while we were in college will influence each and every day of our lives. No more skipping class because you’re hung over from the night before. No more excuses of why you don’t have your homework. No more mom and dad to take care of you. We are officially independent adults and the best we can hope for is to make those who helped get us here and ourselves proud of what we have become. To all the graduates, CONGRATULATIONS! Take with you what you’ve learned and cherish the wonderful memories that you’ve made, but don’t hold them so tight you are scared to make new ones. Let me leave you with some thoughts from Dr. Seuss: “You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. “You’re on your own. And you know what you know. You are the guy who’ll decide where to go.” And finally: “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”

Simons, a senior mass communication major, hails from Petrolia, Texas.

 

Graduating isn’t cheap

“Pomp and Circumstance” rings in your ears, but you wish the noise was just a little change in your pocket instead. From test fees to cap and gown fees to application for graduate school fees, seniors who were responsible with their money up to this point are finding themselves frustrated and poor as they try to plan their lives after their bachelor’s degree. When MSU students reach the semester before their planned day of graduation, they need to apply, which costs $20. Once their graduation date is set, they need to purchase their cap, gown and tassel, which will put them back $37.50. Graduation announcements, if the student chooses to purchase them, cost about $60 for 25, plus the cost for postage. Then there is the class ring cost, if the student wants that type of momento, which can cost up to $500. Total so far: up to $617.50. But what will the graduating senior be doing after college? Once again, it’s time for them to spend even more money. There are application fees to apply to graduate school that run up to $100. So, if you apply to three schools that could cost $300. That’s a total of $917.50. Then there are the tests to get into graduate, law and medical schools. The GRE runs at $115, the LSAT at $108 and the MCAT at $185. So let’s assume you want to apply to graduate schools and a couple of law schools because you aren’t sure exactly what you want to do. That adds up to $223, bringing the grand total to $1,140.50. That’s not even including prep courses (an extra $300) and prep books (about $40). Talk about leaving college in debt. Throughout the last four years seniors have been hearing about how they should prepare for the future and plan ahead, but they were probably never notified that they should have set aside more than $1,100 just to get through graduation day and on to the next phase of their life. Seniors should be able to think about facing the real world, full of its bills and responsibilities, without having to take out a loan or max our their credit cards to get through their final year at college. Why do standardized tests cost so much money when they are computerized and scantron? Do slips of paper announcing graduation really need to cost $2.40 a pop? Why do some schools feel the need to charge $100 for application fees when schools, like MSU, are free to apply to? Entering the real world is difficult enough, but new graduates should not have to use their first month’s paycheck to pay off the debt accumulated from the glory of graduation.

-Lindsey Rich, Editor-in-Chief

We want to thank our staff and fellow editors for their hard work and dedication this year. Also, a very special thank you to our adviser Randy Pruitt for all of his encouragement, Greek food and sex talks. Thanks to all of our readers for their continued support. This has been an awesome learning experience that has had its ups and downs, lefts and rights, but we wouldn’t change any of it for the world. Good luck to Matt Terrell and Camron Rushin as they embark on a voyage they can only prepare for by just diving in and trying it out. When the stress gets bad enough you feel like jumping out of a window, remember: we are only a phone call away.

Lindsey Rich and Alexis Stoddard, Co-Editors

 

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